“Patti” came to Options [Pregnancy Clinic] seeking confirmation of her pregnancy through a pregnancy test. She expressed disbelief at the possibility of being pregnant: “I can’t be pregnant because I don’t feel pregnant at all.” She had not experienced any significant symptoms or noticeable changes. But the test did come back positive, confirming her pregnancy.
Patti opened up about her personal circumstances, sharing that her relationship with the baby’s father was unstable. She wasn’t sure she saw a future with him. She didn’t think he would be supportive during her pregnancy or in raising a child.
Patti Faced Several Fears and Uncertainties
In addition to her uncertainty about the relationship, Patti shared her concerns about finances; there was no way she could afford to care for a baby at this time. The thought of raising a child alone left her feeling overwhelmed and scared. These fears, combined with her uncertainty about her circumstances, contributed to her deep sense of fear over her pregnancy.
Throughout the consultation, Patti felt very emotional and anxious. The clinic tried to provide a calm and supportive environment, giving her space to express her feelings, and reassuring her she wasn’t alone. They offered detailed information about the next steps, including available resources and support options. They told her to take the time she needed to process her emotions and make an informed decision.
When Patti was shown the fetal models, she started to cry. She was amazed by how quickly development happens. Despite her emotional state, Patti expressed appreciation for the guidance and compassion she received during the consultation. Options assured her they would be there to support her every step of the way. Despite her fears and feeling unprepared, she shared that her family would support her if she chose to continue the pregnancy. This provided her with a small sense of hope.
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Patti Began to See the Possibility of Parenthood
At this point, the clinic noticed a shift in how she was feeling. Patti began to see the possibility of being a mother. However, she remained undecided about her next steps, voicing her fears of miscarriage, complications, or the challenges of raising a baby alone. Options reassured Patti that they would remain a consistent source of care and encouragement. They offered follow-up support and resources to help her navigate this difficult journey.
It wasn’t until the follow-up call that Patti said she decided to keep her baby. She explained that the baby’s father had surprised her with his reaction to the news. Instead of the response she had feared, he was excited about the possibility of becoming a father and expressed a strong desire to raise the baby together with her. While they hadn’t shared the news of her pregnancy with her family yet, they planned to wait until the end of her first trimester.
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